Sexual Immorality

My father left when I was 8 and a need for “love” was birthed. Sadly, the attention from males satisfied this desire. As an 11 year old, I played around with witchcraft, dabbled in pornography and opened the door to lust. I began stealing from my mother and in my teen years pushed lustful boundaries, all the while believing I was going to remain a virgin until marriage. I was a fool. How could I dance with the spirit of lust and remain a virgin? Dance with it long enough and we will wind up doing things we never imagined. It is hell bent on pushing boundaries until we are destroyed and we destroy others.

In my 20’s, to no SURPRISE, there was loss of virginity, multiple partners, drunkenness and a deeper desire for darkness. Eventually, with a heart full of sin, I turned my back on God and walked deeper into Satan's camp - more sexual immorality, pornography, adulterous affair, deceit, lies, psychics, channeling spirits, false religion, drunkenness, hedonism, debauchery, and eventually the DESIRE and AGREEMENT in my soul to have an abortion if I got pregnant. It seemed the easy way out - no shame. Death would save me.

How does a little Christian girl end up, one day, walking away from God and eventually agreeing to kill her own child?

From a lack of repentance! One un-repented sin stacked upon the other.

In the midst of all my rebellion, I frequently thought, "I wonder why God is not punishing me for my sin and wickedness? Maybe He does not care since He is silent. Ten years have gone by and not even a rebuke. Oh well, He must not care and since I don't care, I’m gonna keep doing my own thing!” I ignored my wrongdoing and believed the lie that He was ignoring it too. I was silent about my sin and thought He was too.

I was very wrong.

When you did these things and I kept silent, you thought I was altogether like you. But I will rebuke you and accuse you to your face.

Consider this, you who forget God (THE LION OF JUDAH) or I will tear you to pieces with no one to rescue you. Psalm 50:21-22

God never ignored my sin; He was quietly waiting for me to repent. All those years waiting patiently for my heart to turn back to Him. But it never did. I refused the Lamb and so He had to be the Lion.

Surprisingly, I did not get pregnant, nor contract any STD, but later after marrying, I did get something. Something far worse than an unwanted pregnancy or disease.

I got judged!

My sins - my heart judged by the righteous, loving, Almighty God.

He is the Lion and the Lamb - a two sided coin. If we reject the Lamb, He then has to become the Lion to us on this earth and judge our hearts now, lest we live apart from Him and judged for eternity. So we can either be judged here or in hell – it is our choice. He is a loving and merciful God who will do whatever it takes to spare man from eternal separation from His Presence.

Out of His silence, the Lion spoke,

"Beth, you want death of your offspring, I'll give you a dead child. I'll give you exactly what your heart desires.

You want to murder your own child, I'll let your enemies murder your first born son – the first fruits of your strength.

You want to steal from your mother, I'll let people you trust steal from you what is dear to your heart.

You want adultery, I'll give you into the hands of the adulterous spirit until it has humiliated you to your face.

You want false religion, let's see if your gods can save you from the calamity and destruction coming upon you.

You want to hate me, I'll give you over to hate, bitterness and anger until it has nearly destroyed you.

You want witchcraft, I'll give you over to Satan until your flesh fails with grief.

You want sexual immorality, I'll give you all that comes with whoredom: death, curses, a dying marriage, death of health, death of children, death of peace, death of your soul.

I will shake you so that what remains cannot be shaken; to shake so as not to be shaken.”

At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens. The words once more indicate the removing of what can be shaken—that is, created things—so that what cannot be shaken may remain. Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our God is a consuming fire.

Hebrews 12:26-29

Your evil will chastise you and your apostasy will reprove you. Know and see that it is evil and bitter to forsake the LORD your God. The fear of me is not in you, declares the LORD God of Hosts.

Jeremiah 2:19

He shook me and I was beyond broken! Grief that made my body and spirit feel like it would fail. My face on the floor with grief and repentance to Jesus for my sin.

I reaped what I sowed.

Indescribable pain, which I am so grateful for, saved my soul from eternal death. The fear of God was not in me, but it is now!

All to Jesus my blessed Savior.

Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man sows, that shall he also reap. Galatians 6:7

WHY GOD SAID NO SEXUAL IMMORALITY

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.

1 Corinthians 6:18

Why is this so? Because sex unites us with another person’s spirit and flesh. We are one with them.

Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her and body? For it is said, “the two will become one flesh.”

1 Corinthians 6:16

And with that union, our flesh and our spirit receives everything our partner posses: Sin, death, rebellion, witchcraft, hatred, murder, anger and also the bonds with other people whom they have had sex with. So we are united with their sin and we also unite them with our sin. This is why sexual immorality is the one sin that is against the body. When we sin against our own flesh, then our systems, cells, joints, organs and brain receive death, because sin is death.

But Jesus wants us to have life, peace and joy, not death and destruction.

Interesting, how much we pursue health for our bodies, while failing to realize that because of our sexual immorality there is a curse of death over our flesh.

We curse our own flesh with whoredom. So how can healing come to the body when we have cursed it with death?

The world's voice says, "Freedom! Have all the sex your heart desires, when you want, how you want...it is your right, your body."

But they are deceived...free sex is not free, for that freedom comes with a price.

Death, the cup of sorrow.

NO BOUNDARIES

God has given us clear sexual boundaries in His Word for our protection so that we do not destroy ourselves and others.

But we don't want Him, His Word or His boundaries. We want freedom. So if we reject God and His sexual boundaries, then who we really want to shake hands with is the devil. It's one or the other! Just like a property line. We are either live on God’s property or Satan’s. And Satan's purpose is to gradually break down our moral boundaries. Eventually, we and society will do things we never thought permissible. The spirit of lust knows no boundaries.

WE PLAY THE FOOL

We fool ourselves in a thinking we can dance with the spirit of lust and still remain "pure" or a virgin or holy before God. But if we dance with that spirit long enough, then it will eventually break down every boundary we ever thought was in place. It will push and push until it has won and our lives destroyed.

How does a "good" young Christian girl go from desiring to be a virgin to ten years later choosing to abort her child if she got pregnant?

We are also fooled in our way of thinking regarding oral or anal sex.

Many use these acts to prevent vaginal sex, believing that a different location will keep them pure. Anatomical geography does not keep us holy before God. Lust is lust and it is the purity of the heart that He desires, not the location.

When we entertain lust we have bonded with witchcraft, because whoredom is the curse of witchcraft.

I'm sorry, but a ring of purity or “good intentions” is not going to protect us against the spirit of lust or the sin in our own hearts, but ONLY repentance, the Word of God and the Blood of Jesus. Parents, do you really think that a piece of metal and a child’s signature is going to protect them from the enemy. WAKE UP!

HARLOT

Fornication or sexual immorality means harlot.

In the world's eyes, fornication is progressive, but in God's eyes it’s whoredom. So to Him, we are either one or the other, a whore or a virgin.

Whoredom is hell bent on destroying our soul, marriages, children and the unborn. If we want fornication, then what we really want is death.

Some say, "I want a partner with sexual experience." What they really want is a whore. What they really desire is to bring death into the relationship or marriage. RUN! I know, because I became one and death is the price I paid.

Sadly today, the majority of the Christian church has been or is currently involved in sexual immorality. So in other words, the Bride of Christ accepts being a whore before her groom.

I know I did!

She refuses to repent, and sadly turns around and condemns the world for it’s own sexual immorality. The world won't change until the Church repents of her own whoredom.

How can you take on a wolf when you become like the wolf?

I was a whore in the eyes of the Almighty God. One night, I had a dream there was a prostitute in my marriage bed. Little did I know it was me.

I AM WHO YOU SAY I AM

Really? Do we really want The Lion of Judah to tell us?

We want to be reminded of the good things, but we don’t want God to tell us “who we are” when it comes to our sin. It would be wise if we asked the tough question, “God, regarding my sin, who and what am I?”

He clearly told me. I repented and became a virgin in His eyes. My robes washed clean. I had to own who He said I was. Praise Jesus!

THIS IS WHAT YOU GAVE YOUR HUSBAND

One day not long ago, God said to me, "In my eyes you were a whore, but now, because you have washed your robes, you are a virgin. However, you need to fully understand the curses you brought into your marriage

before you repented; what you gave your husband the moment you made a covenant and consummated the marriage before the Almighty God. You gave him everything that was in your heart, the good and the evil, one flesh. And even though you repented and all is forgiven, what is left is the consequences of the sin you brought into your marriage. This is what I want to redeem.”

Here are the curses I brought into my marriage. Through much wisdom, discipline, correction and repentance, Jesus is continually redeeming the consequences of these sins as though they never were.

That is healing!!

Lust

Harlotry

Confusion

Thievery

Murder (anger and abortion)

Death

False religion

Witchcraft

Accusations

Anger

Criticalness

Hatred

Idolatry

Division

Resentment

Bitterness

Argumentativeness

Sexual unions

Adultery

Pornao

Perversion

Debauchaery

Debt

Foolishness

Condemnation

Alcoholism

Lies, deceit

Rebellion

Disease

Selfishness

Greed

Envy

Vanity

Fear

Jealousy

Through the years, I have stood before my husband, with a self righteous, hypocritical heart, pointing the finger at him as his accuser, meanwhile failing to grasp the truth of all the wickedness I brought into this marriage.

I gave him whoredom and death.

I gave him the cup of sorrow.

For out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. These are what defile a person.

Matthew 15:19-20a

PULLING ON THE MARRIAGE BONDS

Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” But whoever is united with the Lord is one with him in spirit.

1 Corinthians 6:16-17

Like the verse says, we become one in heart, soul and flesh with those we sexually unite. So all the men I united with and all the other people THEY united with, I brought into my marriage and marriage bed. All the sin they bonded with became a part of me and everything apart of me I gave to my husband. I surely did not give him a pure heart or pure flesh.

No wonder we had a broken, divided and struggling marriage on the brink of failure. No surprise that divorce has skyrocketed since the sexual revolution of the 60’s. We have brought unholy bonds, whoredom and death into our marriages. We are reaping what we have sowed. It is that simple.

My husband and I did not divorce, but it was greatly troubled until Jesus began healing our marriage by breaking those curses through His wisdom, discipline, correction, refinement, my repentance, His Word, His Blood and the power of His Holy Spirit.

When we have sexually bonded with other people, then consequently, the bonds with our spouse are weak – emotionally, sexually, and spiritually; multiple people in that marriage, multiple people pulling on the marriage

bond. To be unified with others makes it VERY difficult to be solely unified with our spouses and division is the result.

See, God said, “No sexual immorality” in order to PROTECT the marriage bond, to PROTECT the children from divorce and PREVENT the curses of whoredom from being passed down to the next generation.

The world is suffering from the sexual freedom it promotes. The children are suffering from the weight of the curses of whoredom that the generations have passed down to them. Who is going to step up and say, “No more whoredom, no more division.”

We no longer guard and protect the holiness of marriage. We have opened the door and let every demon enter in by bonding with others. And then we wonder why our children are doing the very same things we did. Harlots just like us. Broken marriages just like ours. Sins of the parents passed down to the children....just like a waterfall.

Passing down curses to our children rather than blessings.

Children who are rebellious to God....just like us. Criticizing them for their rebellion and apostasy. And then we shake our heads and ponder why our offspring are walking away from their faith. What faith?

Repent to Jesus, name each sin and let Him teach, correct and discipline your heart from the sin of whoredom. Prostrate yourselves before Him and confess your sins to others and to your age appropriate children. Freely receive Jesus’ forgiveness and your robes will be washed clean, the curses gone and blessings now passed down to you and your offspring. This is what I did, this is who I was...a whore before God, but now I am a virgin. Hallelujah, praise the Lamb of God!

God said that to me a few years back, "Beth, you were a whore, but now you are a virgin, because you repented of your sexual immorality and all the sins that came with it. A virgin bride made ready for her King.

I was shocked, I had never been called a whore and never thought of myself as that, but when God told me who I was in His eyes, truth ran through me like a bolt of lightening. I said, "Yes Lord you are right, and your words are truth to my heart.

Jesus thank you for forgiving me of my sins and nailing all of my sins to the cross. Thank you for showing me my whoredom and that this curse is now broken and shall not plague me, my marriage or my children.

This is true freedom!!

For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

Psalm 103:11-12.

QUESTIONS WE SHOULD ASK GOD

Am I a whore or a virgin in your eyes?

Have I repented of my sexual immorality and named each sin one by one? Have I confessed my sin to man or a trusted individual?

What curses did I give my spouse?

What and whom did I bring into my marriage bed?

Are there sexual unions I have made with other people or images?

Am I passing down the curses of whoredom to my children?

Have I made things right with my children by confessing my sin?

What do I want to give my future spouse and my children… blessings or curses?

SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS

The Church is struggling with the issue of sexual immorality. How do we handle the encroaching pressures of the world’s immorality?

The Bride must not be blind to her own whoredom – whether through sex, finances or idolatry. When the Bride FIRST owns her own sin, God will go on her behalf and bring revival to the world. He says to the Church, “You first. Be deaf, mute and blind to other’s sin, but do not be deaf, mute and blind to your sin. I came to save the world.”

We should be crying out to Jesus, “LORD show me MY sin. Show me MY sexual sins? Is there any sin I am committing in regards to sex? Help me not be blind to my whoredom, but make me blind to the sins of others.

Help me to only be concerned with who You say I am.

When God lists sins in the bible, it’s not written for the purpose of accusing or condemning others of sin, they are there so that we can recognize sin in our own lives and intercede for others who are struggling. This is part of the gift of righteousness; to discern sin in ourselves and others and to contend not condemn.

ROBES WASHED CLEAN IN THE BLOOD

Our hearts will be the ONLY thing that stands before the throne of God and the most precious thing we could give our spouses and our children ....a pure, clean, meek heart before Christ.

A virgin pure and holy made ready for the wedding day, with robes washed clean.

Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have the right to the tree of life and may go through the gates into the city. Outside are the dogs, those who practice magic arts, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood. Revelation 22:14-15

Then one of the elders asked me, “These in white robes—who are they, and where did they come from?” I answered, “Sir, you know.” And he said, “These are they who have come out of the great tribulation; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. Therefore, “they are before the throne of God and serve him day and night in His temple; and He who sits on the throne will shelter them with his presence.”

Revelation 7:13-15

PARENTS

Parents, again our whoredom and the sin we brought into our marriages must be repented of to God...asking forgiveness from God, our spouses and confessing our sin to others. We will find mercy as the Word says. This births amazing healing in families.

CHILDREN

Name and repent of the sins one by one that you have brought into your marriage which you are passing down to your children.

Then when your children are age appropriate, confess your REPENTED sins to your children as the LORD leads after much prayer. Pray for timing and the words that HE wants said. Be transparent before them, as well as when you fall short. It is a lie from the pit of hell to believe that if our children knew what we did, it would give them permission to do the same things. So we hide our sins from our children and think this is going to keep our kids holy. What??

Repentance to God and His forgiveness of our sins is what makes us holy before Him, and our spouses and our children, through the precious Blood of Jesus.

When they see our humility, transparency, and sins turned to forgiveness, then wisdom is birthed and blessings are passed down to them. We set an example of how to be humble and transparent before God and man. Wisdom births wisdom!

Now, UNLESS the truth would wound them or another, then refrain from making it known, but only confess it to someone you trust and pray before confessing and let the Holy Spirit be the guide.

Humility and fear of the Lord - this is wisdom. And when we repent to God, and confess to others....we find mercy. Nowhere in the Word of God does it say that if we confess our sins it will cause another to sin. Remember the key is repentance and humility before God and man.

Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.

Proverbs 28:13

If our children have fallen into their sexual immorality, then go into Davical Warfare. I describe this in the section called The Dragon. It is in Healing of The Nations. So do not war for them until there is clear understanding of HOW to war; lest we be decimated in the process. The Blood of Jesus is key in this war for parents and for children. As the scripture says in Revelation 12, “The Saints overcame the dragon by the Blood of the Lamb and the Word of their testimony” This precious Blood flows down from the righteous parents to their children and makes them holy. And the devil cannot overcome the Righteous Blood of Jesus.

The unbelieving husband is sanctified through his believing wife and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is they are holy.

1 Corinthians 7:14

HEALING

Healing will come to our families and marriages, from the purity of our hearts through Jesus who is our healer.

For the greatest gift we can give God, our spouses, and our children is a pure, meek, teachable, humble and repentful heart, willing to ask God....

Judge my heart oh God lest I be condemn with the world.

The virgin Bride of Christ, whose robes are washed clean in the Blood of the Lamb, made ready for her King.

LINK to THE DRAGON

LINK to MARRIAGE

LINK to INVENTORY OF THE HEART

Sexual Immorality

Healing of The Family